THANK. YOU. I hate the idea that if one person in a relationship is a little insecure and not super strong, the relationship is fucked up and unhealthy. (I also hate the idea that you MUST be 100% super secure and self-loving with no emotional hangups in order to be able to have a relationship. At all. If that were made a law no one would ever date or get married because there are TONS of people with issues out there.)
STOP TALKING ABOUT HOW ARGUMENTS IN A RELATIONSHIP ARE A GOOD THING.
YES. THIS. I have friends I've argued with plenty of times. I also have friends I seldom if ever argue with. Some people just do not argue with each other. At all. And it has nothing to do with hiding things or repressing or whatnot, it just means sometimes, two people simply have no reasons or need to argue with each other. The. End.
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STOP TALKING ABOUT HOW ARGUMENTS IN A RELATIONSHIP ARE A GOOD THING.
YES. THIS. I have friends I've argued with plenty of times. I also have friends I seldom if ever argue with. Some people just do not argue with each other. At all. And it has nothing to do with hiding things or repressing or whatnot, it just means sometimes, two people simply have no reasons or need to argue with each other. The. End.