brb, adding Harlequinarchy to my dictionary. :D
Heh, glad you like the term. ;)

Dear god, thank you. I hate it when people say arguments add more ~*~realism~*~ to a relationship. My boyfriend and I very rarely argue, and I consider that a good thing. Guess our relationship isn't "healthy" enough. :/
Well, if you believe the memetic dogma going around these days... D|
I would consider it a good thing, too! I hope to have a relationship like that. :)